Uncharted waters
Carla Kuhlmey • April 29, 2020
Uncharted Waters

Navigating through uncharted waters during this stressful time is very overwhelming for many of us and leads to anxiety and sleeplessness. Keep in mind that this is new territory for teachers, parents and our children. Find peace in knowing that we are all in the same boat. Steer your ship into calmness when there is a storm and choose the rules of your ship together as a family.
There is structure and routine at school, and children arrive knowing what lessons they have each day and are ready to engage in the wonder of their learning experience. During term time, their day starts with their usual morning routine. They make you coffee and bring you breakfast in bed, pack your lunch and rush you because they are ready and waiting in the car. Imagine how wonderful that would be! My point is, there is routine and the children learn what is expected of them each morning, from the time they wake up until the time they arrive at school. During lockdown, the routine that has always worked has dwindled into the uncertainty of what the day entails. There are no bells or alarms to assist with time management. It is difficult for the kids to shift their mind-set and realise that home is now school. There are so many toys to play with and their play station calls out hourly.
Tip One
• Pre-primary and Primary learners - Create a visual timetable.
There are editable, free examples available. Below is an example.
The pictures will cue what happens next. Include the usual morning routine pictures( dressing, breakfast, teeth etc.) and add the new pictures ,such as a laptop or IPad for their online morning greeting with their teacher, maybe a see saw logo when it’s time to complete those activities etc. It is important to include a family time, exercise or outdoor activity and quiet time picture. You need your time to do work, cook and clean so add that in so they know you are busy during those times.
• Senior and College Phase learners - Formulate a timetable with your children. They will have some idea of their workload and limits of sustained concentration. Help them schedule in suitable breaks and down time. Do not forget to add in their chores, responsibilities, and outdoor activities.
There is an endless amount of work to do. Cleaning, cooking, working and now you have to assist the teachers in teaching your children. It is all very overwhelming and results in stress, anxiety and worst of all GUILT! It is important to realise that when you scream at your child because they asked you to play while you are trying to reply to the 200 emails sitting in your inbox, you are not alone. So many parents are finding this a challenging time. This epidemic has caused stress in every family; it may just be packaged differently.
Tip Two
• Reach out for help - When you feel anxious or overwhelmed reach out for help or an ear to listen.
• Positive mind-set – Remind yourself of the positive elements of your situation. You are safe in your home with your family. Your kids will love knowing you are close by. The forced family time builds strong connections and opens up pathways of communication. You are able to give your child individualised attention during the ‘School day’, which is invaluable. So many parents, although really struggling, are so grateful to understand their child’s strengths and weaknesses.
• Organisation and Planning- Do your best to manage your time and plan each day to ensure you can complete your daily-required tasks.
• Mindfulness- Be mindful of your emotions and know your limits. When you feel the symptoms of your different emotions manifesting, such as a warm sensation in your cheeks due to anger or frustration, remove yourself from the situation and breathe. That is a good time to signal to your partner, if they are available, to step in. You can only do what you can do!
• Focus on one thing at a time- It is importance to realise that it is acceptable for you to lose control and act irrationally. It is impossible for each day to run smoothly. Your children will be more difficult on days and it is not the end of the world if your house is upside down. Take a step back, breathe and focus on one task at a time. You may need to lower your expectations to ensure you and your family are able to achieve realistic goals.
• Maintaining a healthy lifestyle- These habits are essential in keeping our bodies and minds, strong and equipped to deal with our daily challenges. This will improve your physical, mental, and emotional health. Exercise will reduce stress and improve cognitive function. The endorphins released during exercise will make you feel good and assist in creating a positive mind-set.
This experience has certainly brought about many challenges and feelings of anxiety and stress. We are all in this together and need to reach out and support one another in our learning community. Feelings of guilt and failure will soon reduce as you listen to others experiencing the same feelings. Crawford North Coast is a family who looks after every masterpiece under its roof, including the parents. We are here to support you and your children during this time. Remember your best is good enough!
“Ships don’t sink because of the water around them: ships sink because of the water that gets in them. Don’t let what’s happening around you get inside you and weigh you down.”
Pick up your bucket, empty the unwanted water and set sail into the uncharted seas of online teaching. Good Luck, you know how to reach us.
Carla Kuhlmey
Teacher - Crawford Preparatory North Coast

A Lifelong Educator Mr Chris Herbst has spent 41 years in the classroom. With a Bachelor of Education from the University of the Witwatersrand, he has taught countless learners over the decades. He joined Crawford International Sandton in 1999 and currently teaches Afrikaans to students from Grade 8 to Grade 12. His role spans across five different year groups, a challenge he embraces. “I have my hands full as I navigate the excitement and challenges of teaching an additional language to five different grades,” he says. Why Teaching Still Matters For Mr Herbst, teaching is not a job. It is something he feels deeply connected to. “Teaching is my great passion and calling. The classroom is where I find my motivation and inspiration,” he shares. “When we have a really good lesson and I see our students leave having learned something new, or figured out a challenging concept, then I am motivated and inspired all over again.” These everyday moments keep him grounded in his purpose. They are the quiet victories that reaffirm his place in the classroom. Freedom to Teach with Meaning Mr Herbst values Crawford’s approach to learning, particularly the way it supports teacher agency and student-centred learning. “I love the fact that the focus is student-centred, and that as teachers we have the freedom and the responsibility to create a teaching and learning environment that works best for every learning need,” he says. He believes this flexibility allows for learning to become more meaningful. “If I identify that a particular topic or poem has piqued the interest of my class, I have the freedom to delve deeper and really explore the subject matter without being bound by rigid syllabus rules and time frames.” Connecting Language to the Real World Teaching Afrikaans in a school where it is often an additional language means finding ways to make it resonate. Mr Herbst understands that for many students, the subject may not come naturally. “For many students, learning another language may initially feel like a requirement rather than a passion,” he explains. To bridge that gap, he brings the language to life through content that students can relate to. “It’s important to integrate engaging, real-world content such as music, movies, and stories that align with the students’ interests.” These tools, he believes, help students see the language in context and build an emotional connection to it. A Teaching Legacy Over the course of his career, Mr Herbst has taught more than one generation in the same family. It is a milestone he reflects on with pride. “I have taught students who are now parents, and I am teaching their children today. It doesn’t get better than that.” But what stands out most for him is being remembered. “By far my biggest kick is when a past student recognises me and comes over to strike up a conversation and talk about their life and work after school.”

ALUMNI SPOTLIGHT: DYLAN BIZJAK Crawford International Sandton From the classrooms of Crawford International Sandton to the forefront of aeronautical engineering in the Netherlands, Dylan Bizjak’s journey is one of ambition, resilience and innovation . Pursuing a Passion for Engineering After matriculating in 2019, Dylan initially pursued Aeronautical Engineering at Wits University. However, six months into his studies, a new opportunity emerged, one that would take him beyond South Africa’s borders. He secured a place at Inholland University of Applied Sciences in Delft, Netherlands, where he embraced the challenge of international study, even navigating his first year remotely due to the pandemic. Now a graduate with a BSc in Aeronautical Engineering (2024), Dylan has stepped into the professional world, joining Eve Reverse, a pioneering start-up dedicated to climate-positive innovation. What began as an internship in his final year evolved into a full-time role as a Research and Development Engineer, where he contributes to the creation of sustainable, carbon-negative materials. His proudest achievement? Playing a key role in the development of the Eve Dry Tile, an innovative flax fibre material designed to reduce emissions and waste in manufacturing. Achievements at Crawford International Sandton Gareth Beach Award (2019) – Recognised for bravery, dedication, self-development and outstanding achievement in swimming. Sportsman of the Year (2019) – Acknowledged for excellence in swimming, basketball and boxing. Reflections on Crawford Dylan credits his time at Crawford for preparing him for both academic and personal success on the global stage. “Crawford’s approach equips you for university and beyond, whether in South Africa or internationally. It’s not just about academics but about becoming a well-rounded critical thinker and team player. Exposure to diverse cultures, teamwork, individuality and taking responsibility for my outcomes were invaluable lessons I carried with me.” Words of Wisdom To his younger self, Dylan would say: “Step out of your comfort zone sooner. Growth happens when you challenge yourself. Leaving home was tough, but the personal and professional growth was worth every stumble along the way.” Dylan’s story is a testament to courage, hard work and the power of embracing the unknown. From South Africa to the Netherlands, he is proving that the sky isn’t the limit, it is just the beginning.